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There are some things we can do or avoid to make our relationship last longer—simple things we can do every day just by paying attention to our actions. Here are 5 things that will help you a lot!
1. Turn off your cell phone
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If you are one of those people who never lets go of their cell phone, know that this can end your relationship, nobody likes to be with someone who is not present on the same plane, trying to get someone's attention all the time is very boring and it might be worth turning off your cell phone when you go out to dinner or when you decide to watch that movie with popcorn.
2. Go to bed at the same time
If you let your partner go to bed alone, know that this is very serious. No one sleeps alone with someone else. Bedtime is a major reason couples break up because they can't find a common ground. How about negotiating a good time for both of you to go to bed together and have a moment of peace and quiet every night.
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3. Bring him a cup of coffee
Have you ever done little things that mean a lot? You don't need something grand to show you care. Look for something that shows a little bit of affection and can be done without much hassle. You don't have to be a millionaire and spend a fortune on surprises, but how about a special breakfast, or a text message in the middle of the day? You can also visit someone at work or simply give a big hug and say "I love you." It can make someone's day, and you can't even imagine how much good it does.
4. Ask a new question
How about asking what he would do if he won the lottery? Or what he would do if an alien contacted him today. Strange? Yes, a little. But did you know that new topics always spark the imagination and can help your relationship stay afloat? You can come up with anything, a hypothesis that would be unlikely to come true, but you'll learn a little more about your partner and how they think. People change a lot over the years, so this kind of conversation is worth having in a relaxed moment.
5. Say “thank you”
Appreciate what your partner does for you. You know those little things you can do to improve your relationship? Of course, you also need to pay attention to what they do for you. Thanking and appreciating them will always motivate them to do it again and again.
