MOTHER OR WIFE? Do you know how to tell if you have a husband or a grown son?

Men are often an enigma that we only unravel with time. We need to let a few months of relationship pass so that we can truly discover what's going on in their little heads.

There are some men who get married looking for a “new mother”, those men who grew up at home with a super protective family who always had food in their hands, clothes chosen on the bed and has that special product that only his mother knows how he likes it and what flavor he will want, yes, these men when they get married want you to be a mother just like the one they had.

If you have children, either with them or from previous relationships, these men will always be comparing what you do on a daily basis for your children and what you do for them. Their talk is very good and can even convince you for a while. Sometimes you even think you are wrong, but don't fall for it. Over time, you will learn the trickery they use.

They're like eggshells, fragile, don't take kindly to complaints, and you might know they'll cry for no reason, so don't fall for it. Some work, but most don't. They prefer you to be the breadwinner, of course.

In fact, most of the time this happens without them realizing it, they prefer to go out with independent women who will pay the bill, they want to receive gifts but can never buy one in return, when they work they earn very little and they want women who have a maternal spirit, they usually look for someone who already has children and they stay there for a long, long time.

But the problem isn't that they are like this, but rather that women accept this completely, they think they have no choice, that it's better than nothing, they take care of themselves, put food on the plate, go to the doctor, buy medicine, tell them to take a shower, take the towel off the bed and everything else, and so they overload themselves.

If you have a husband/son and don't mind, or maybe you enjoy being a wife/mother, that's great, but if you feel lonely, or don't have a partner to share the bills and the heavy burdens that a relationship brings, know that you can change your life, and not every man is the same. Look for someone independent who has a career or plans to have one, someone who chooses their own food, knows how to cook, helps with household chores, and is a good son, not a dependent one.

You will always know what your boyfriend will be like when he becomes your husband by paying attention to how he treats his own mother.